It’s simple, it’s tested and it works.
“DON’T GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANTS” or even better, give him the exact oposite!
He wants recognition, ignore him. He wants compliments, tell him what you don’t like about him. He wants sex, no sex it is! And the list goes on.
Don’t put small stuff in stake. Make sure he thinks that you are cool with him wanting what he wants, but at the same time that you just don’t feel like giving it to him and would rather be leaving.
It has worked miricles for many many females outhere and please don’t be afraid to use it!!
For those of you who don’t know, the stamp theorem is the belief that stamps and guys have similar properties. The more you ignore a guy (spit on him) the more he gets attached to you (sticks). Yeah it makes more sense where I come from but it works worldwide and it’s one of the first things I was taught, even as a kid.
Just be careful to make sure that he is already convinced that you like him before you start toying with his mind.
That is actually applicable because once he feels that he’s got you but he sees you starting to go away he behaves like a 5 year old who wants his toy back.
You may have noticed that many times when you’re on your own, even in your best attire, you don’t get as much “attention” as when you are out with friends.
Why is that?
Well usually, when guys see a group of girls around you, they know you are open to other people, social and pleasant to be around.
When you are on your own though, you seem unapproachable and distant and they are most definitely not interested into getting rejected.
First of all, every guy has different limitations to the point of labeling a girl a slut. Some guys are more tolerant when others disapprove even showing a little cleavage.
For the first group (the “hungry” ones) it’s not that they are perverted and want to get everything off of you. It’s just that girls that seem to be more up-tight look more distant, not interested, hard to get and controlling. So lets take them from the top:
Well, First dates are on the semi-formal side of the dress code.
I would suggest a summer dress (they love those) no shorter than mid-thigh. The neckline shouln’t be too revealing but as we said, guys are visual types so make your decision. Go for light make up but make sure you tone your strong characteristic (make your eyes/lips pop). I would not suggest heels or sneakers, so go with flats they work just fine.
Relax and have a great time :D
Because he simply can’t.
They say, first impression always maters so getting him interested is the first, and most basic, part of flirting.
The criteria by which he decides if he will be interested or not are (unfortunately or fortunately) looks. He will be “sizing you” and if you get through that then he is going to tell his friend (we will get to the reason later) to check you out. If you pass that faze too then you just have to show him you might be interested and he will decide to give it a shot.
Once he is up for it, he will get to know you a bit better and be able to judge your personality.That’s your chance to shine :P
At this point I would like to note that those are not “How to get a one night sand” tips and are directed to girls with more serious intentions.
My tip for a one night stand would be: Get drunk, Go straight to his face, Tell him you find him handsome, Giggle to every stupidity he says, Ask him to take you home telling him you are tired and there you go!
Some will ask: Do all men think in the same way? (Regarding the looks post) Aren’t there different types of guys? I thought of it and that movie was the first thing that came to mind.
I was in vacation for a week with my friends (two boys and one girl who I know since I was born).
Every night we were going clubbing and me and the other girl of the group would always take our time to get ready and always ask the boys for their opinion. Most of the times they just said something on the lines of good or nice.
This one night, we were in a hurry so I pretty much put on the first thing I saw (a pair of shorts and a one shoulder t-shirt) and a little make up.
Once the guys saw me what they said was “Nice ass”. So my question was: Do we really have to go through all this for a “Nice ass”? All that hair straitening, clothe picking, applying all that make up, eyeliner, mascara etc goes in vain?
They afterwards explained to me that : No it doesn’t. All that procedure adds an extra “something” to our appearance. It shows to them that we know how to take care of ourselves and it would make them fell more comfortable to take us out (show us to their friends that is). If a girl is good looking, or has a nice body, the rest seem a bit less important but it still is. They like us to show a bit more skin but definitely not look like sluts. Sexy but controled.